We all want to love and to be loved, but are you loving someone when you do something for them in order to fulfill a need for yourself? It is human to have needs, but it’s also human to love. The question is: how can we get our needs met and at the same time unconditionally love someone?
The answer to this question takes us to the ultimate love, the type of love that enables us to feel whole and complete. This is the love that is foundational of all love, the ultimate goal of all searching souls, and the foundational focus of our work here at UltimateLove Counseling & Coaching.
At UltimateLove Counseling & Coaching, our mission is to improve all aspects of people’s lives by first improving their relationships.
The health of our relationships is often overlooked in terms of our daily health priorities checklist. That is not by accident! Relationships are complicated and messy. It is so much more difficult to navigate the challenges of a relationship than fix a broken leg. While experiencing a broken leg can be painful and caring for it an inconvenience, you will take the time and set a plan in motion to deal with it.
What about your relationship with your significant other? Everyone wants peace, joy, and connection in all their relationships, but interactions with others have their ups and downs. Where do we go for that? What cast is there to fix a relationship issue? What type of doctor does one go to when there’s a fight with their spouse and the word “divorce” was mentioned?
It is beyond dispute that many aspects of our lives are positively affected when the health of one area is improved. At UltimateLove Counseling & Coaching, we are steadfast in the belief that the most profound and wide-reaching effect on all aspects of our lives is the improvement of our relationships. This is especially true of our romantic relationships. When you change your relationships, you change your life.
Try as we may to work on relationships on our own, it still leaves the best of us, at times, in despair with bouts of doubt, loads of anxiety, and a quest for sanity. So, when your relationship is in trouble, who is there to help you through the turmoil? Our goal here at UltimateLove Counseling & Coaching is to help you navigate your relationship through the difficult times, so you can take it to the next level of fulfilment and bliss. A better relationship is possible, and we are here to help.
Heidi is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, who has been working with adults and couples on relationship issues, anxiety, and depression for over 10 years since she started her training in 2012. Her specialty is personal empowerment work, as she strongly believes that solid relationships are formed from solid individuals.
Her approach is very solution focused, supporting her clients in their struggles, and equipping them with the tools they need to communicate who they are to the world. Heidi often works with individuals who are going through a major breakup and finding it difficult to recover. She helps them rebuild their sense of individuality using grounding and mindfulness techniques and evidence-based therapies like CBT.
Heidi has extensive experience in relationship coaching and is helping singles challenge their limiting beliefs, set clear achievable goals, and find their partner for life. Couples come to her for work on communications, building trust, and co-creating a healthy, long lasting, and blissful relationship.
Having successfully gone through the difficult years of parenting troubled adolescents and navigating a difficult marriage, she offers first-hand expertise, deep understanding, and a genuine desire to help those going through similar life struggles.